Our fraud department works 24 hours a day in order to screen for scammers and we delete, blacklist, and block any and all scammers we can find.
However, because these guys can be rather crafty we need your help! There are many scams coming from Nigeria, Ghana, the UK and other foreign countries.
The con artists will pretend to be living or working in a foreign country. They will send you a number of sweet “I love you – you are my soul mate…” emails to build your trust and confidence, and their profile will appear to be an authentic white nice guy – sometimes with a picture of a child. Then suddenly they will have some difficulty – a medical emergency etc, and ask you to wire money to their bank in Africa.
If you see anyone asking you for money on the site this is a big red flag. Follow this simple rule:
DO NOT SEND MONEY TO PEOPLE YOU HAVE NEVER MET BEFORE – no matter how convincing it sounds !!!!!!
Use the CONTACT US link on the bottom of every web page to report the member to us so the appropriate actions can be taken. The safety and privacy of our members is a top priority for us and with your help we can put these guys to rest permanently.
Thank you for your assistance in this matter. Our goal is to provide the best dating experience possible. Here is a good information page by the United States Goverment on Love Scams:
Article about online dating in Philippine What's On Expat magazine
The CEO of MeetAsianBabes.com was recently interviewed by What’s On Expat magazine in the Philippines. Here is a small clip from the article Matchmaking across Miles and MegaBytes:
Nils shares that among the males who frequent meetasianbabes.com, their age range is usually between 30 to 60 years of age. Americans, Canadians, Australians, and British men, along with some from other European countries, are the most frequent visitors. On the female side, they tend to be 20 to 30 years old and come from the Philippines, Thailand and (more recently) China.
One thing that Nils wants to stress about the website is this: it’s not about selling sex. “We are way, way different from that,” Nils states. “We are not a marriage agency, but neither are we a sex website.” Nils defines meetasianbabes.com as “A social website for romance or for lovers.”
You can go directly to read the whole interview with CEO of meetAsianBabes.com about online dating in Philippines and Asia at:
It is common knowledge that the number of times men have sex is often higher than reality. — It is also often true that women like to downplay the number of times they have had sex.
A good rule of thumb is to divide the number of times a man has had sex by 2 and multiply the number of times a woman has had sex by 2 to get a somewhat realistic number. (smile) — In other words when a woman says she has had 3 intimate encounters it is really twice as high i.e. six (6).
But wouldn’t it be nice for the women to have lots erotic experiences to bring to their current relationship and make their boyfriend happy? Good love-making is not a given, it is learned from lots of experience.
So, why do women artificially deflate their sexual encounters?
The answer is: In your old male dominated society – for at least a 100 years – the men considered women that had sex before marriage as soiled “merchandise”.
However, even today while we live in a modern world with liberating New Age thinking, there are still male feelings of jealousy and insecurity of their woman. This makes men look for women who do not “appear” to like sex with different men – too much. And, women comply by looking shy and innocent to catch their “good man”. (smile)
This is truly a double standard, since even though men do enjoy sex – and are ready for action on short notice – they will prefer their “serious” romantic partner to have little romantic experience. And, it is also not good for women, since they are denying who they really are as physical human beings.
Luckily there is a man – perhaps many years ahead of his time – preaching how women should stop being so guilty and shameful about their sexual desires, and that men should stop calling women “sluts”, just because they enjoy recreational sex.
Watch Johnny Soporno (great name!) in his video from Oslo, Norway. Part of the video is in Norwegian, but Johnny talks in good old American English.
Johnny is my hero! He says both men and women should accept the way they are…
See more information about Johnny Soporno on web site, and watch his totally free videos. He is truly honest and frank speaking.
Is it possible to learn to pickup beautiful girls?
Watch Tyra Banks challenge two professional pickup artists to teach an unskilled man to meet hot women in a park. Normally they charge $3000 for a weekend seminar to teach men to get good with women.
See how they did in this video from YouTube:
Now, you might say this is the subject of learning how to pickup American women, but I say it is a about learning how to get good with women in general.
There is no such thing as a special woman from America and another species of woman from Asia. Both types behave the same way to emotional and physical responses with men.
Just watch the video, and you will see how a shy man went from not getting dates to meeting strangers (read: hot women) in a park and number closing them.
You can read more about the techniques of love systems here. I recommend their eBook for starters – it is only $68, and there is no need to spend $3000 for a weekend seminar like mentioned on the Tyra Banks show:
I find it very interesting to watch all the different forms of scamming that people get into in different low-pay countries, just because they think all men from Western nations are rich.
New Translation Love Scam from China
I will try to report the latest scams in my blog here. But, feel free to send me any email you have with information about new scams, if you see something interesting.
The latest scam from China involves some very innocent looking – but pretty – girls from China.
First they will send you a few simple emails in English, but then quickly try to get you to sign into one of their free membership sites – AsianSweetLove. But, the catch is you must pay money to translate each email to the girl!
This is particularly gross since you can use the free web site from Google Translate that works wonders. If you need to translate any love letters or email in Chinese or Thai for a girl that speaks little English, just use the free Google translate service. It is not a 100% perfect in translation, but it is certainly 95% – or enough to make any girl understand your meaning.
I even use the Google translation web site when I am online chatting with an Asian girl, in real time. The girls are normally very impressed when I send Chinese or Thai sentences over Yahoo! messenger or MSN. (smile)
With this Chinese love-scam it is very possible that no girl is receiving your romantic emails, but this is probably an internet sweat-shop with rows of people hovering over their computers, solely interested in fleecing your Western valet to collect some money.
Be aware and stay away from these web sites. I do not know anything positive – or real love, that comes from this.
However, these girls always look so cute! – I wish they were really available online for chatting and more. So sad, but I guess that is why so many guys get sucked in. (smile)
South Korea just keep pumping out those wonderful looking girls with tight outfits and a nice dance routines. — Here is is a Korean group called WonderGirls, with their song: “Nobody” and their behind the scenes video:
I love the Korean accent. It actually sounds better than the American version, which you can watch below. Not sure why they are trying to translate such a great song. Perhaps they will try blond wigs and blue contact lenses next? … Crazy thought! HA-HA
There are lots of Asian dating web sites, but in my experience, there are only a few dating/social web sites to meet Asian girls, worthy of your attention:
FilipinaHeart.com (dating site; signup is free, but cost money to send message to other non-paying members)
HotOrNot.com (free to post and rate your photos, send messages cost US$8/month)
This is my summary report after having sorted, sifted and chatted with the top (read: most attractive) 500 girls from Philippines, Thailand, China and some other countries in different web sites.
If you are a serious online dater, you want to collect as many pieces of information about their work, education, location, family, height and weight, dating and sexual experiences etc. Believe it or not, some of the girls have zero sexual experience, and are still virgins and will not have sex until they are married!… I am talking from actual experience here, and it may also not be what you are looking for. (smile)
Of course you have to be diplomatic with your “interview” of the girl, as most people do not like to be questioned as if they have just met the police. Try to make the conversation fun and ask “stupid” questions to open her up, for example: “Do you like foreigners?” … “Did you ever try a foreigner boyfriend” … “Why not – are you lesbian? hehe” etc. For me, it has become both an art and science to as quickly as possible extract the information from the girl to determine if she is worthy of my time and effort.
The girls will frequently mention they have no money to pay for internet web cam sessions in an internet shop – or food for their family. Some girls are really clever and have other elaborate scams to extract money from foreigners. The poverty in Philippines is much worse than I expected.
Needless to say: DO NOT EVER SEND MONEY TO SOMEONE YOU HAVE NOT MET. Even if the amount of money requested is small compared to your monthly Western nation income, it will waste your time and leaves a bad feeling when you meet with a girl from another country that will never chat with you again, after she has received your money. I consider my life too short, and I always try to steer my life towards positive experiences with the time I have left on this Earth.
Some profiles are totally fake with girls posting fake photos, height, weight etc. I am amazed at some of the girls who do not just fake the real age, but fake almost all aspects of their profile, such as photos, where they live and work, height, weight etc. Do you really want to date someone who is this careless about their integrity!?
I would say the best two free dating sites in Asia, are at this time:
And again, do not send money to people you have not met, and always ask the girl to verify her identity with a short web cam session. It costs less than US 40 cents to go to an internet web cam shop in the Philippines for an hour of internet chatting.
Do not accept the common excuse of the scammer that there is no internet shop in their city, they want you to send money to buy web cam, or it is not safe to visit the internet shop etc. I have traveled all over the Philippines and there is an internet shop on almost ever street corner in the Philippines.
There are lots of beautiful and sweet (read: low-maintenance) girls in the Philippines, Thailand and other Asian countries. Just be aware and educate yourself a little bit. It will not only save you some money, but will bring your less heart-ache and more of that bliss and spirit of play.
Is there any more to life than to be deeply and really happy? (smile)
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