Ask Dr. Smile - Tips for Online Dating in Asia! » frequency of sex http://meetasianbabes.com/blog How to Find & Date Great SE Asian Women Tue, 09 Mar 2010 12:35:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 Why do Women Downplay their Sexual Encounters? http://meetasianbabes.com/blog/understanding-women/women-downplay-their-sexual-encounters/ http://meetasianbabes.com/blog/understanding-women/women-downplay-their-sexual-encounters/#comments Mon, 27 Jul 2009 22:09:52 +0000 Dr. Smile http://meetasianbabes.com/blog/?p=425 It is common knowledge that the number of times men have sex is often higher than reality.  — It is also often true that women like to downplay the number of times they have had sex.

A good rule of thumb is to divide the number of times a man has had sex by 2 and multiply the number of times a woman has had sex by 2 to get a somewhat realistic number.  (smile) — In other words when a woman says she has had 3 intimate encounters it is really twice as high i.e. six (6).

But wouldn’t it be nice for the women to have lots erotic experiences to bring to their current relationship and make their boyfriend happy?  Good love-making is not a given, it is learned from lots of experience.

So, why do women artificially deflate their sexual encounters?

The answer is: In your old male dominated society – for at least a 100 years – the men considered women that had sex before marriage as soiled “merchandise”.

However, even today while we live in a modern world with liberating New Age thinking, there are still male feelings of jealousy and insecurity of their woman.  This makes men look for women who do not “appear” to like sex with different men – too much.  And, women comply by looking shy and innocent to catch their “good man”.  (smile)

This is truly a double standard, since even though men do enjoy sex – and are ready for action on short notice – they will prefer their “serious” romantic partner to have little romantic experience. And, it is also not good for women, since they are denying who they really are as physical human beings.

Luckily there is a man – perhaps many years ahead of his time – preaching how women should stop being so guilty and shameful about their sexual desires, and that men should stop calling women “sluts”, just because they enjoy recreational sex.

Watch Johnny Soporno (great name!) in his video from Oslo, Norway.  Part of the video is in Norwegian, but Johnny talks in good old American English.

Johnny is my hero!  He says both men and women should accept the way they are…

See more information about Johnny Soporno on web site, and watch his totally free videos.  He is truly honest and frank speaking.

-Dr. Smile

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American men really do know how to enjoy themselves!

Tokyo: Do Japanese men work too hard?

Americans appear to have the most sex at 132 times a year, with the Russians close behind at 122 times a year, the French at 121, and the Greeks at 115. The countries with [...]]]> According to the Durex Survey (2001):

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American men really do know how to enjoy themselves!

Tokyo: Do Japanese men work too hard?

Tokyo: Do Japanese men work too hard?

  • Americans appear to have the most sex at 132 times a year, with the Russians close behind at 122 times a year, the French at 121, and the Greeks at 115.
  • The countries with the lowest frequency of sex are Japan (37 times per year), Malaysia (62) and China (69).
  • Couples living together report having sex 146 times per year.
  • Married couples make love 98 times per year.
  • Single folks are having sex the least at 49 times a year.
  • Four percent of the respondents to the survey claim to have sex daily.
  • 57% say they have sex at least once per week.
  • “People around the world would rather go out with their friends than have sex. More than a fifth (22%) choose their peers rather than having sex with a partner (19%), while a further 10% prefer to either play sport or go shopping.”

    • For more information about this independant survey, click: Durex Sex Survey

    - Dr. Smile

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